My husband is an engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature
and..I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would have to
admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before,
has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a
relationship and my feelings. I yearn for the romantic moments, like a
little girl yearning for candy.
My husband is my complete opposite; his lack of sensitivity, and the
inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened
me about LOVE.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a
'Why?' he asked, shocked.
'I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world!' I answered.
He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling of
disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to even
express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him?
And finally he asked me: 'What can I do to change your mind?'
Somebody said it right... It's hard to change a person's personality,and I
guess, I have started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I
'Here is the question.... If you can answer and convince my heart, I will
change my mind.'
Let's say; I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff,and we
both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death.
Will you do it for me?'
He said: 'I will give you your answer tomorrow....'
My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with
his scratchy handwriting underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near
the front door, that goes....
'I would not pick that flower for you, but....
please allow me to explain
the reasons further.....'
This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.
'When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs,
and you cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that I can
help to restore the programs.You always leave the house keys behind, thus I
have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you.
You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to save
my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your 'good friend' approaches every
month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by
infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and
stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your
eyes. I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip
your nails and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I
can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the
sunshine and the beautiful sand...and tell you the colour of flowers, just
like the colour of the glow on your young face....
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more
than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die ... '
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting...
and as I continue on reading...
'Now, that you have finished reading my answer, and if you are satisfied,
please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk...'
I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly
with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread....
Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does,and I
have decided to leave the flower alone...
That's LIFE, and LOVE.
When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away,and
one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms;
even in very small and cheeky forms.
It has never been a model.
It could be the dullest and most boring form ...
Flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface
of the relationship.
Under all this, the pillar of true love stands...
AND THAT'S LIFE
The happiest people in the world...
are not those who have no problems,
but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect.
LOVE is not just between two lovers, husband and wife--it also
encompass; mother, father and siblings, sisters and brothers, friends
and neighbors ya!
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