这篇是工作中运用劝导文，是网上公共信息。How to Have a Good 

Family Life

           Despite the perfect 

picture families that always 

seem to loom over us on 

television, posters and bill 

boards, there are many 

more complexities and 

dynamics to families than 

all smiles and laughter. All 

families are different, and all 

families have their own 

issues, but with the right 

amount of work and 

determination, you can 

make your family life the 

very best it can be, by 

developing your 

relationships and learning 

more about yourself and 

your relatives. No one's 

family life is perfect; but 

you can make yours good, 

so why not?

Steps Image titled Have a 

Good Family Life Step 

1:

Understand your family 

well. If you don't then there 

can be many 

misunderstandings and 

fights. Be with them 

whenever you can and get 

to know them better. A lot 

of families now don't get to 

know each other too well 

because they're too busy. 

Plan some family time, like, 

a movie, or a family game, 

or even as little as eating 

dinner together.

 2：

Respect your family. Your 

children, your wife/husband 

are now yours but 

remember at the end of the 

day they are also humans. 

They also have an opinion 

or suggestion. Sometimes it 

can be bad or good. Never 

be angry with someone's 

opinion, they have their 

opinions, and no one's 

perfect. Give time. No one 

wants to be ignored just for 

some meeting or work. 

3: Give time to each and 

every one of them so you 

can understand every 

individual properly and this 

can prevent any 

misunderstandings in the 

future.

 4： 

Treat everyone as equal. 

Whether its your maid or 

stepchild, they also deserve 

love and affection from you 

as you deserve from your 

wife/husband or from your 

own child. Treat everyone 

like you would want to be 

treated, and getting along 

with your family should be 

easy. 

 5: Never scream or shout 

at anyone. This can create 

hatred for you in their 

hearts. By simply making 

them understand can do a 

lot. Why waste energy 

when you can do it calmly?

Try not to fight with your 

siblings. Fighting can tear 

your relationship apart and 

you'll regret it when you get 

older. Treasure the time you 

have with your siblings, you 

can't get it back.

6：

Never discriminate. 

 7: Learn to compromise. 

When you or someone else 

in your family wants the 

total opposite of each other, 

find a way to work it out to 

give you all what you want.  

8: Help each other. When 

you see your sibling or 

parent needs help, help 

them. Doing little things 

such as holding the door 

for them, or helping 

someone with homework.9:

Organizing surprise 

birthday parties and 

celebrating any individual's 

achievements can really 

help.

10：

Avoid using offensive and 

abusive words against each 

other.

11:

Sometimes teenagers can 

feel sad or lonely. First ask 

them about it and if they 

don't want to share then its 

OK. It's just hormones. If 

you think that something is 

really bad, ask their close 

friends and help him/her.  

12: Never ever break any 

promise. This can hurt them 

or make them feel that you 

are a liar and every time will 

break promises.

13:

Learn to forgive.

14: Don't scold too much. 

Scolding can be good for 

them but never overdo it.  

15: Make them realize in an 

easy way. If someone in 

your family has done 

something wrong or have 

betrayed your trust, make 

them realize their mistake in 

an easy way. Do not yell or 

use abusive language.