很久以前，我和幾位工人一起被廠里派去修人防工程。我們幾個都是年青人，男男女女說說笑笑到也熱鬧。

有一位姑娘人很不錯，開朗大方，我們一起修了幾個月的防空洞。因為人防工程的地點離我家較近，我有時請她和其它人到我家吃飯，所以大家關係很好。

幾個月後，因為一個工人要結婚，我們要一起湊份子送禮，她請我送到她家。我去後，發現她專門為我做了飯，她母親也在門外看了看我。

那天晚上她很熱情，希望我多留一會兒。我當時太年輕，沒有多想，放下東西後很快就走了。

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後來，這位姑娘就幾乎不和我說話了。

我當時非常納悶，為什麼她不理我了。我試着和她恢復以前的關係，但沒有成功，始終無法明白這位姑娘的心。

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再後來，我隱隱約約的明白了。有兩種可能性：

一是大概那天晚上，她是要我去見她的家人，因為她想和我談戀愛。因為她的家人不喜歡我，所以她和我疏遠了。

再有的可能性是，我那天晚上沒有對她的熱情做出回應，她認為我拒絕了她。實際上我那時太年輕，根本沒往那方面想，以後卻沒有機會解釋了。

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我希望是第一種。因為一個姑娘拒絕了一個男人總比被人拒絕在心理上更易於被接受。最難捉摸女人心，…We Are One But We Are Not The Same

如果有一天，一個女孩突然無故疏遠了你，你應該想一想... 

One

Is it getting better Or do you feel the same Will it make it easier on you now You got someone to blame You say... One love One life When it's one need In the night One love We get to share it Leaves you baby if you Don't care for it Did I disappoint you Or leave a bad taste in your mouth You act like you never had love And you want me to go without Well it's... Too late Tonight To drag the past out into the light We're one, but we're not the same We get to Carry each other Carry each other One... Have you come here for forgiveness Have you come to raise the dead Have you come here to play Jesus To the lepers in your head Did I ask too much More than a lot You gave me nothing Now it's all I got We're one But we're not the same Well we Hurt each other Then we do it again You say Love is a temple Love a higher law Love is a temple Love the higher law You ask me to enter But then you make me crawl And I can't be holding on To what you got When all you got is hurt One love One blood One life You got to do what you should One life With each other Sisters Brothers One life But we're not the same We get to Carry each other Carry each other One...life One