很久以前，我和几位工人一起被厂里派去修人防工程。我们几个都是年青人，男男女女说说笑笑到也热闹。

有一位姑娘人很不错，开朗大方，我们一起修了几个月的防空洞。因为人防工程的地点离我家较近，我有时请她和其它人到我家吃饭，所以大家关系很好。

几个月后，因为一个工人要结婚，我们要一起凑份子送礼，她请我送到她家。我去后，发现她专门为我做了饭，她母亲也在门外看了看我。

那天晚上她很热情，希望我多留一会儿。我当时太年轻，没有多想，放下东西后很快就走了。

… …

后来，这位姑娘就几乎不和我说话了。

我当时非常纳闷，为什么她不理我了。我试着和她恢复以前的关系，但没有成功，始终无法明白这位姑娘的心。

… …

再后来，我隐隐约约的明白了。有两种可能性：

一是大概那天晚上，她是要我去见她的家人，因为她想和我谈恋爱。因为她的家人不喜欢我，所以她和我疏远了。

再有的可能性是，我那天晚上没有对她的热情做出回应，她认为我拒绝了她。实际上我那时太年轻，根本没往那方面想，以后却没有机会解释了。

… …

我希望是第一种。因为一个姑娘拒绝了一个男人总比被人拒绝在心理上更易于被接受。最难捉摸女人心，…We Are One But We Are Not The Same

如果有一天，一个女孩突然无故疏远了你，你应该想一想... 

One

Is it getting better Or do you feel the same Will it make it easier on you now You got someone to blame You say... One love One life When it's one need In the night One love We get to share it Leaves you baby if you Don't care for it Did I disappoint you Or leave a bad taste in your mouth You act like you never had love And you want me to go without Well it's... Too late Tonight To drag the past out into the light We're one, but we're not the same We get to Carry each other Carry each other One... Have you come here for forgiveness Have you come to raise the dead Have you come here to play Jesus To the lepers in your head Did I ask too much More than a lot You gave me nothing Now it's all I got We're one But we're not the same Well we Hurt each other Then we do it again You say Love is a temple Love a higher law Love is a temple Love the higher law You ask me to enter But then you make me crawl And I can't be holding on To what you got When all you got is hurt One love One blood One life You got to do what you should One life With each other Sisters Brothers One life But we're not the same We get to Carry each other Carry each other One...life One