很久以前，我和几位工人一起被厂里派去修人防工程。我们几个都是年青人，男男女女说说笑笑到也热闹。

有一位姑娘人很不错，开朗大方，我们一起修了几个月的防空洞。因为人防工程的地点离我家较近，我有时请她和其它人到我家吃饭，所以大家关系很好。

几个月后，因为一个工人要结婚，我们要一起凑份子送礼，她请我送到她家。我去后，发现她专门为我做了饭，她母亲也在门外看了看我。

那天晚上她很热情，希望我多留一会儿。我当时太年轻，没有多想，放下东西后很快就走了。

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后来，这位姑娘就几乎不和我说话了。

我当时非常纳闷，为什么她不理我了。我试着和她恢复以前的关系，但没有成功，始终无法明白这位姑娘的心。

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再后来，我隐隐约约的明白了。有两种可能性：

一是大概那天晚上，她是要我去见她的家人，因为她想和我谈恋爱。因为她的家人不喜欢我，所以她和我疏远了。

再有的可能性是，我那天晚上没有对她的热情做出回应，她认为我拒绝了她。实际上我那时太年轻，根本没往那方面想，以后却没有机会解释了。

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我希望是第一种。因为一个姑娘拒绝了一个男人总比被人拒绝在心理上更易于被接受。最难捉摸女人心，…We Are One But We Are Not The Same

如果有一天，一个女孩突然无故疏远了你，你应该想一想... 

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Is it getting better
Or do you feel the same
Will it make it easier on you now
You got someone to blame
You say...

One love
One life
When it's one need
In the night
One love
We get to share it
Leaves you baby if you
Don't care for it

Did I disappoint you
Or leave a bad taste in your mouth
You act like you never had love
And you want me to go without
Well it's...

Too late
Tonight
To drag the past out into the light
We're one, but we're not the same
We get to
Carry each other
Carry each other
One...

Have you come here for forgiveness
Have you come to raise the dead
Have you come here to play Jesus
To the lepers in your head

Did I ask too much
More than a lot
You gave me nothing
Now it's all I got
We're one
But we're not the same
Well we
Hurt each other
Then we do it again
You say
Love is a temple
Love a higher law
Love is a temple
Love the higher law
You ask me to enter
But then you make me crawl
And I can't be holding on
To what you got
When all you got is hurt

One love
One blood
One life
You got to do what you should
One life
With each other
Sisters
Brothers
One life
But we're not the same
We get to
Carry each other
Carry each other

One...life

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