藤儿点评：在华人圈子里，英文首字母缩略词MILF的使用还谈不上流行。简单来说，MILF就是一个有家庭有孩子的已婚女人的性取向，比较贴切的中文对应被称作[风骚辣妈 ]。如果一个风骚辣妈一接触到自己婚外的男人就有了“来电”的感觉，她定会从施舍点小恩小惠开始，逐渐会对这个男人倍加关心和照顾，经常会有快乐和肉麻的短信或电话相约见面。如果这个男人对她一呼百应，她会千方百计地做到滴水之恩涌泉相报。[风骚辣妈]的捕猎对象常常是已婚有家室的男人，如果你属于这一类型的男人，是否能够抵挡得住[风骚辣妈]的色诱？

近日，加拿大B.C .省长Christy Clark 应邀在摇滚电台节目中与听众互动，不幸陷入“MILF门”丑闻事件曝光，随即演变成了一场政治风波。在北美，如果一个普通有孩子的已婚女人自由地表达自己的性取向，不会引来轩然大波。然而作为名女人，就有天壤之别了。Christy Clark 已婚有两个孩子，难怪摇滚电台的听众对她“性”趣盎然。Jet FM主持人魏康姆斯(Justion"Drex" Wilcomes)去年12月中旬在节目上，代表一位听众向简蕙芝提问，询及身为「风骚辣妈」(MILF )的感觉。Christy Clark对提问报以开心一笑，居然迅速给出了自己的答案：她笑称「风骚辣妈」（MILF）总比「饥渴熟女」(cougar)来得好。(注：后者热衷于老牛吃嫩草。）

这次“MILF门”丑闻事件,最终导致电台Jet FM主持人魏康姆斯(Justion"Drex" Wilcomes)被资方解雇。加拿大B.C .省长 Christy Clark 应该设法帮助他找回一份电台的工作，以彰显加拿大的言论自由。

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来源：http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_4d08765e0102dzqr.html

作者：木子李

丈夫被风骚辣妈骗色在床

博友留言：
木子李：
    小三是一个有家庭有孩子的女人，不过婚姻并不幸福，且这个女人比我老公大4岁。他们在彼此面前可以毫无顾忌，老公发给她的短信上，口口声声说“我爱你，我想疼你一辈子”，我感觉浑身冰凉凉。
    我彻底跟老公说开了，我问他这样做的目的是不是要拆散这个家？如果是，我不想再纠缠，我会认真考虑离婚细节，如果不是，我需要一份安全感，我不能与别的女人分享老公。他没正面回答我，只是说，如果对我没感情，他就不会住在这个家。他说他跟那女的关系不像我想象的那样。他也坦言对我的不满，就是不久前老公曾问我能不能给他一笔钱做生意，我一口回绝了，因为这笔钱不是小数目，如果给他，那我们就几乎没存款了，我考虑到家庭和孩子，所以跟他说不能拿出来。他说他为了这笔钱，求了很多人，我在他最困难的时候没有帮他，让他彻底寒了心。
    这事发生在婚姻危机后，且他除了说要钱做生意，生意上的细节也没跟我细说，我不拿钱有我自私的一面，但我这算不算本能的自我保护呢？我自己都很纠结，但真切的感觉到了他对我的怨恨。
    我也告诉他，我其实已知道那女的一些情况（我之前问过几次，老公都不肯透露半点，我是通过其他方法查到那女的信息），我脱口说出那女名字，这让我老公很吃惊，他追问我如何得到这些信息，我没告诉他。他说他没了安全感，觉得自己活在我监视下。
    目前他没再和我分房睡，他主动搬回我房间，但夫妻生活很少，且每次都是我主动，之前他还会配合，最近他开始推脱，让我很尴尬。
    他目前的工作状况我也不清楚，他不让我过问，有次我见到老公发短信约那女偷腥，那女回短信问我老公是不是还要去面试，我觉得那女知道我老公的一切行踪，他们还有共同的朋友圈，而我始终是雾里看花。
    他除了晚上回家，白天他干了什么，我一概不知，只是有几次看到别人发短信约他去打牌，有几次老公发短信邀那女，他的语气是那么快乐，我真不敢往下想。
    如果我不去看他的短信和通话记录，表面上我们风平浪静，最近他手机也是删除的干干净净，短信和通话记录上都看不出他是否还在和那女联系，只是他仍然拿着手机进厕所呆很长时间。
    有时很想跟踪他一次，把这些迷惑都弄清楚。他说如果我跟踪调查他，我们就真的无法挽回了。

回复博友：

    人到中年，特别是对男人来说，最恐惧的事情就是失业，因为回家不愿让老婆孩子为自己担心，所以，就算失业，也会按照之前上班的点在外游荡。期间，男人会努力的寻找适合自己的工作，但工作不是说风就是雨的事，为此肯定会有一段时间的游荡阶段。
    在这个过程中，男人除了游手好闲，还会精神恍惚，只要在此刻，有一个女人能够给点小恩小惠，一定会感激不尽。
    也就是说，你丈夫或是在事业失意的时候认识小三的，事业失意的初级阶段，你丈夫是不愿意对你讲实情，在是在没辙的时候，你丈夫向你要钱，你又不愿资助，为此，他认定小三比你靠谱。
    生活中很多情感故事都是这样的：明明知道付出金钱和时间很辛苦，但是只要别人这样为自己爱人做了这些事就会不爽。
    从你丈夫的表现来说，他现在处于一个吃软饭的状态，但是他还有最起码的脸面，也就是说，婚外的女人不管为他做了什么，他还不至于和你离婚。
    你需要这样一个心态，你丈夫是一个专款专用的男妓，从那女那里赚取一点廉价的生活费，并从现在开始，你要通过其他渠道先了解一下你丈夫的真实处境，并在适当的时候给予帮助而不是唠叨。
    记住，小三再伟大，她还不是把自己的婚姻经营的乱七八糟，而你充其量和小三差不多，所以，从现在起，你要学会做一个护夫女，当然不是一味的对丈夫迁就，而是先和他多沟通，先尝试着走进他的世界，你说作为老婆，每天连丈夫在外做什么你都不知道，不觉得很悲哀？当然了，侧面也反映了你这个做老婆的很不称职。反思一下自己平时的行为，或许并不是你丈夫一个人的错。

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来源：世界新闻网 2013-01-11

温哥华一主持人遭开除 称BC美女省长风骚辣妈

温哥华岛一位摇滚电台节目主持人在访问省长简蕙芝过程中，用不雅言词，遭到电台开除。

温岛库特尼(Courtenay)JetFM主持人魏康姆斯(Justion "Drex" Wilcomes)去年12月中旬在节目上，代表一位听众向简蕙芝提问，询及身为「风骚辣妈」(MILF )的感觉。

　　简蕙芝对此问题一笑置之，并笑称「风骚辣妈」总比「饥渴熟女」(cougar)来得好。

　　由于MILF有指涉性吸引力强的女性含义，而cougar则指涉专找年轻男子的熟女，魏康姆斯的问题和简蕙芝的回答都引起争议，在节目播出后延烧数周。

　　JetFM10日在一份声明中表示，该台已停止魏康姆斯的聘用合约，但人事聘雇属于内部事务，该台不会就此事再做任何说明。

(网路照片)被炒鱿鱼的前电台主持人魏康姆斯。

(网路照片) 加拿大 B.C .省长 Christy Clark。

    省长办公室则表示，未曾就魏康姆斯所提问题向该电台投诉，更未要求电台把他解职。

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By AndyRadia | Canada Politics – Fri, 11 Jan, 2013

Radio station fires DJ who asked B.C. Premier ChristyClark if she was a ‘MILF’

(网路照片) In what's been dubbed by some as 'MILF-gate', radio DJ Justin Wilcomes was fired after asking B.C Premier Christy …

A shock jock on Vancouver Island says he hasbeen fired for doing his job.

In what's been dubbed by some as 'MILF-gate', radio DJJustin Wilcomes — aka Drex — asked B.C Premier Christy Clark what it was liketo be a MILF during a live on-air interview last month.

To everyone's surprise, the premier actually answered thequestion.

[Related: B.C. Premier Christy Clark: 'Better a MILF than a cougar' ]

"You know, I take that as a compliment … you know,it’s one of those things," Clark said.

"Better a MILF than a cougar."

Now, according to Wilcomes, he's been unfairly firedbecause of the question and the subsequent public uproar.

"I did what was expected of me," he told a CKWX1130 on Thursday.

“I work at a rock station. We do entertainment and comedyinterspersed with things in our community. I don’t think it was a bad thing. Ithink, more the media attention is what they were angry about."

Wilcomes went on to say that he wanted to apologize to thepremier for the question but was never given the opportunity.

"I wanted to do that but I was told I wasn’t allowedto say anything to anybody about anything at any stage," he said.

According to the Vancouver Province, Wilcomes will be meeting with a lawyerabout the firing on Monday.

Whether he should or shouldn't be fired is certainly up fordebate. But there is somebody else that is culpable here and that's Clark.

[Related: Will 2013 continue the boom for women in politics? ]

While Drex may have just been doing his job by asking thequestion, Clark — as premier — should have handled it better; she should havesaid 'I'm not answering that, let's move on.'

Who knows — if she did that, Wilcomes could still begainfully employed.

Regardless, voters in B.C. will have their chance to fireChristy Clark — for her inappropriate response — in May.

Update:(5:20pm EST on Jan. 11):

Wilcomes appeared on CKNW Radio on Friday afternoon and said that he hasaccepted a job offer by another radio station: Vancouver's CFOX.

He also says that people should just relax about hisquestion to the premier.

"I think people need to lighten up. Why doeseverything have to be so serious all the time," he said.

"The whole reason this became a news story is becausethe B.C. Conservative party are... looking for something to attack her on. Itcomes down to this: whether she's the premier or not, she's a person, she hasan opinion, she has a sense of humour and if anything I think that humanizedher more than anything else."

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By AndyRadia | Canada Politics – Fri, 28 Dec, 2012

B.C. Premier Christy Clark: “Better a MILF than acougar”

Is B.C. Premier Christy Clark a MILF or acougar?

It's clearly an inappropriate, even vulgar question. AMILF, of course is an acronym for 'Mother I'd like to f@#$' and acougar is an older woman who goes after younger men.

But, last week, during an interview on a Vancouver Island radio station, PremierClark received such a question.

What's worse, is that she answered it.

As chronicled by the Vancouver Province, 98.9 JetFM host Drex asked Clark what itwas like to be a MILF (apparently 'Drex' was asking on behalf of a listener).

Here's the premier's response:

"You know, I take that as a compliment … you know,it’s one of those things. Better a MILF than a cougar … so tell him I saidthank-you."

TheProvince newspaper goes on to quote Clark's presssecretary who said the premier was "shocked" by the question and"responded accordingly and simply wanted to move on."

[Related: McGuinty, Clark ranked as Canada's least popular premiers ]

But others aren't as forgiving — Clark's responseelicited a traditional and social media debate that went into the wee hours ofFriday morning.

"That two-sentence exchange has, it seems, given theClark-haters enough fuel to carry them well into the new year," the Victoria Times-Colonist editor David Obee wrote in hisnewspaper.

"Personally, I think she did the best she could withan unexpected, inappropriate, insulting, stupid question. She answered itquickly and moved on. That’s not good enough for the critics, who have hadtime — something Clark did not have — to think of all sorts of things thatClark could have said or done."

Veteran Global TV reporter Keith Baldry agreed that the question was adisgrace but Tweetedthat Clark "should have shut [the host] down" instead of "tryingto a score a point."

And then there's blogger Laila Yuile who wrote an excellent piece suggesting thatChristy Clark brought on the question herself.

Yuile references a July 2010 interview with the Vancouver Sun— when Clark was a radio talk show host — where she talks about herfavourite television show, Manswers, and recounts an episode where they were asking howlarge breasts would actually have to be to crush a beer can.

"And people are attacking the [98.9 JetFM] radiohost for an insulting ,vulgar and inappropriate question?" Yuile writes.

"On a radio station much like The Fox, or Rock 101, both ofwhich [Clark] has shown her sense of humour on in the past, documented in soundbytes and photos for the world to see?

"Give me a break."

[More politics: Top political YouTube videos of 2012 ]

Certainly the MILF question should not have been asked.

But Clark should not have had answered it; she should havesaid 'I'm not answering that, let's move on.'

And to Yuile's point: would anyone even think of askingAlberta premier Alison Redford that question?

Would any radio station dare ask that question to one ofCanada's senior federal cabinet ministers such as Rona Ambrose or LeonaAglukkaq?

Probably not.

And if they did, they wouldn't be getting a response.