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Life Can Hardly Be Simple As A Chinese 2010-10-15 08:26:57

The author fully understands that his English writing is not nearly as good as those native writers  and far from perfection, and is intended to accept  criticism, suggestions and corrections; but is not intended for showing off in anyways, nor intended to take any personal attack, foul languages, and name calling in the name of free speech. This is a due proactive acknowledgement

 

Life Can Hardly Be Simple As A Chinese

 

Life has been so simple to me for the past 8 or so years until I impulsively got into this Blog writing thing about a month ago behind the back of my wife. Things become a little complicated and life isn’t that simple anymore.

Simple thing like expressing my point of view on education in China isn’t so simple to my wife when she found out. So I have to conceal all my personal information so that WuMaoDang of CCP won’t find out who I really am easily, and so that make peace of my wife’s mind. Simple thing like writing in English become a big deal for a few mental cases who are obsessed with verbal abuse, personal attack with foul languages, and name calling. I’ve been forced to counter attack at the expenses of dropping myself at their level. To be a Chinese is not a choice, is not easy either. But can’t we at least be simple for the sake that we are not in China anymore.  

Chinese people, with majority kind hearted, often under estimate the evil of CCP has done to us. At least to our precious mind, it was filled with lies, it was washed to different extent, and it was corrupted, twisted or confused by the Communist entity. Honestly, we  Chinese in or from mainland China collectively, even so called enlightened us in the western world, are not at our best to judge what is right and what is wrong , simply because of the brain damages that we had by CCP. I am pretty sure there will be some hurt feelings for a few proud minds by above statement, but that is the truth.

We more often than not judge Westerners based on our complicated mind which I agree is a necessity to survive in China. Come on, there is not so much a conspiracy against China when Liu Xiaobo won the Nobel Peace Prize because the committee is simply follow their well accepted value and standard. In fact, a smarter move thinking only Norway’s economic interests will be not to grant the award to Liu Xiaobo so that Norway won’t get economic sanction from China. But that will be against their simple conscious about what is right and what is wrong.  Come on, there are not so many conspiracies against China when the American or the British or the German Government simply do their best to represent their people and countries’ best interests dealing with China, or when China is at loss which very often than not is the case that the Communist Government fails the Chinese people and the country to fulfill its Party agendas or corrupted personal agendas of its officials.

Life can be simple here but only if one is willing to simplify its mind. Simple doesn’t necessarily mean good or stupid. But at least simple means easy to decide, less confusing or confused, not complicated so that no one could cheat or be cheated easily any more, giving much less chance for what happed and happening in China where people were and are cheating or cheated. Simple is, like happiness, a state of mind and a choice. Life can be so simple and happy if you choose to here in North America, Chinese or not.

 

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作者:beny 留言时间:2010-10-16 08:00:29
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Thank you so much for your compliment.
At the meantime it make my face red and palm sweat to know that Chinese is not really your native language, but is mine. My problem is more psychological than true that I was told repeatedly that I was so lousy and terrible in my Chinese writing skill (brain damage?)in high school which eventually led to my failure to simply finish my assignments on essay writing.
Guess if you can re-learn Chinese that well, I should be able to get over my psychological hump some day to write in Chinese.
Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Ben
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作者:2cents 留言时间:2010-10-16 07:24:39
Ben,

I would like to commend you on the efforts you’re taking to practice English. In many ways it reminds me of my own efforts to re-learn Chinese, which I acquired during my childhood but after several decades of disuse has gone unfamiliar and rusty.

I think you’re doing a marvelous job. Please keep up the good work!

Have a great weekend!
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