The real problem of DongDong is that in deep of her heart she is still a Chinese girl.  She has no way to change that  same as for her accent.  Otherwise she has no problem at all,  nor would she come here.  She still wants a family, with or without the certificate,   but that lucky  or unlucky man has to look like the King of cat. 

I have seen so many first generation Chinese girls  as such.  I wish her good luck,  though  I know life is always harder  than we dream.