Hello,dear qinlao,it is really a wonderful afternoon reading your papers at home. I am a mum now although it seems not very real sometimes. My son is 9 month old. It was very wield the first time I took him out for a walk. I felt I was driving somebody else' son. I just relocated in san diego.Hubby said it is more convinient for me to have the job interviews so we took him back to china.It is really hard. i miss him.I havn't worked for 4 month because i am waiting for California license . sometimes I feel a little bit frustrating . After reading your papers,i think i should cheer up and try to establish my new professional life here.I am looking forward to reading your more papers and sharing your experience of life.it is so happy to know you.xixi