“我可以骚，你不能扰”与强奸文化-偶灯斯陋-万维博客-万维读者网（电脑版）

对于许多人来说，男女平等似乎仍旧是个非常难以掌握的概念。

上海地铁的告示基本上相当于那位加拿大警员(Constable Michael Sanguinetti)说的话，大意就是：性骚扰，强奸等等对于女性的暴力，起因是女性的穿着。这是典型的责怪被害者的心态。所以引起了环球各地的男女老少上街游行，所谓“slutwalk”--“荡妇”其实是反话反说。类似于当年英国军队用“扬基杜德”（美国土老冒）来嘲笑美国着装不齐的军队，可是美国佬却拿来我用，索性自称“扬基杜德”，大有我是流氓我怕谁的气势；以致如今“扬基杜德”都唱成了爱国歌曲了。今天每到七月四日美国独立节，这首“扬基杜德”就要大唱特唱一番，唱得豪情满怀，唱得兴高采烈。

上海女性用“我可以骚，你不能扰”的口号，实际上是“荡妇游行”的中国体。她们穿着清凉，实际上是在表达一个看法，make a statement.这个看法就是，用女性的衣装来做借口，为对于女性的暴力（性骚扰和强奸等等）来开脱罪责，是行不通的。性骚扰是犯罪，与女性的任何着装方式都没有关系，而与信奉男尊女卑的rape culture有关。你不能拿女性的衣着作为性骚扰的理由和借口，而把性骚扰的罪行起因怪罪到受害人身上。

性骚扰是犯罪。
没有任何人可以用任何理由为借口对他人进行性骚扰。
其实，所谓“slutwalk”就是争的一个道理。对于性骚扰（包括强奸）这种犯罪，不应当责怪受害者。
否则，女人都应该像阿拉伯妇女用黑布从头裹到脚，还要用烟锅灰搽在脸上以换取安全？还有，在泳池海滩，人们着装暴露，可谓“穿得骚”，那是不是也给色狼做性骚扰的借口呢？

College Park, Md., resident Ashleah Younker was one of several women and men who chose to express themselves via magic marker.

Slut Walk D.C. volunteer Dave Dugard from Falls Church, Va,. speaks with a secret service officer in Lafayette Square. Dugard passed out bottles of water to demonstrators and said he was at the event to represent his daughters, ages 5 and 12.

A crowd assembled just south of the Washington Monument as activists prepared to speak at Sylvan Theater.

It started to pour as speakers addressed the crowd, but most came prepared or endured. Virginia resident Kim Cohen, who was raped when she was a high school freshman, said she was there

Silver Spring, Md., resident Jess Trainwreck at the rally near the Washington Monument.

资料：Rape Culture
A rape culture is a complex of beliefs that encourages male sexual aggression and supports violence against women. It is a society where violence is seen as sexy and sexuality as violent. In a rape culture, women perceive a continuum of threatened violence that ranges from sexual remarks to sexual touching to rape itself. A rape culture condones physical and emotional terrorism against women as the norm.

In a rape culture both men and women assume that sexual violence is a fact of life, inevitable as death or taxes. This violence, however, is neither biologically nor divinely ordained. Much of what we accept as inevitable is in fact the expression of values and attitudes that can change.

（中文翻译）强奸文化
强奸文化是一组复杂的信念。这种理念鼓励并且支持男性对于女性的暴力行为包括性骚扰，性侵犯和强奸。在信奉强奸文化的社会里，暴力被看成是性感的，而性则一定是带有暴力的，性与暴力紧密相连。
在强奸文化里，女性通常遭遇一系列的性暴力威胁，包括性言语（语言骚扰），性接触（性侵犯），以及强奸。强奸文化把纵容对于妇女进行身体上和情绪上的恐怖主义看成天经地义。
在信奉强奸文化的社会里，人们不分男女都认定性暴力或者暴力性是生活中的事实，是不可避免的，犹如死亡和税收那样具有必然性。然而，这种暴力行为，既不是生理决定的也不受神灵保佑的。我们以为这些似乎确凿得如同板上钉钉不可改变的东西，其实都是某种价值观念和态度的表述，而价值观和人们的态度并非一成不变，而是完全可以改变的。

Definition from Wikipedia:

Rape culture is a concept used to describe a culture in which rape and sexual violence are common and in which prevalent attitudes, norms, practices, and media normalize, excuse, tolerate, or even condone sexual violence.

Examples of behaviors commonly associated with rape culture include victim blaming, sexual objectification, and trivializing rape. Rape culture has been used to model behaviour within social groups, including prison systems where prison rape is common and conflict areas where war rape is used as psychological warfare. Entire countries have also been alleged to be rape cultures.

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Rape culture has been observed to correlate with other social factors and behaviours. Research identifies correlation between rape myths, victim blaming and trivialisation of rape with increased incidence of racism, homophobia, ageism, classism, religious intolerance and other forms of discrimination

最后一段的中文翻译：

强奸文化已被观察到与其他社会因素和行为的关联。研究确定了在以下三种现象包括关于强奸迷思，指责受害者，将强奸罪恶减轻缩小化与种族主义，同性恋恐惧症，年龄歧视，社会阶层歧视，宗教不相容忍和其他形式的歧视有着正相关性。

Define feminist: Anyone who believes women's experiences and ideas are valued is a feminist.

女权主义者定义：任何认为女性的经验和思想是有价值的人就是一个女权主义者。