“我可以騷，你不能擾”與強姦文化-偶燈斯陋-萬維博客-萬維讀者網（電腦版）

對於許多人來說，男女平等似乎仍舊是個非常難以掌握的概念。

上海地鐵的告示基本上相當於那位加拿大警員(Constable Michael Sanguinetti)說的話，大意就是：性騷擾，強姦等等對於女性的暴力，起因是女性的穿着。這是典型的責怪被害者的心態。所以引起了環球各地的男女老少上街遊行，所謂“slutwalk”--“蕩婦”其實是反話反說。類似於當年英國軍隊用“揚基杜德”（美國土老冒）來嘲笑美國着裝不齊的軍隊，可是美國佬卻拿來我用，索性自稱“揚基杜德”，大有我是流氓我怕誰的氣勢；以致如今“揚基杜德”都唱成了愛國歌曲了。今天每到七月四日美國獨立節，這首“揚基杜德”就要大唱特唱一番，唱得豪情滿懷，唱得興高采烈。

上海女性用“我可以騷，你不能擾”的口號，實際上是“蕩婦遊行”的中國體。她們穿着清涼，實際上是在表達一個看法，make a statement.這個看法就是，用女性的衣裝來做藉口，為對於女性的暴力（性騷擾和強姦等等）來開脫罪責，是行不通的。性騷擾是犯罪，與女性的任何着裝方式都沒有關係，而與信奉男尊女卑的rape culture有關。你不能拿女性的衣着作為性騷擾的理由和藉口，而把性騷擾的罪行起因怪罪到受害人身上。

性騷擾是犯罪。
沒有任何人可以用任何理由為藉口對他人進行性騷擾。
其實，所謂“slutwalk”就是爭的一個道理。對於性騷擾（包括強姦）這種犯罪，不應當責怪受害者。
否則，女人都應該像阿拉伯婦女用黑布從頭裹到腳，還要用煙鍋灰搽在臉上以換取安全？還有，在泳池海灘，人們着裝暴露，可謂“穿得騷”，那是不是也給色狼做性騷擾的藉口呢？

College Park, Md., resident Ashleah Younker was one of several women and men who chose to express themselves via magic marker.

Slut Walk D.C. volunteer Dave Dugard from Falls Church, Va,. speaks with a secret service officer in Lafayette Square. Dugard passed out bottles of water to demonstrators and said he was at the event to represent his daughters, ages 5 and 12.

A crowd assembled just south of the Washington Monument as activists prepared to speak at Sylvan Theater.

It started to pour as speakers addressed the crowd, but most came prepared or endured. Virginia resident Kim Cohen, who was raped when she was a high school freshman, said she was there

Silver Spring, Md., resident Jess Trainwreck at the rally near the Washington Monument.

資料：Rape Culture
A rape culture is a complex of beliefs that encourages male sexual aggression and supports violence against women. It is a society where violence is seen as sexy and sexuality as violent. In a rape culture, women perceive a continuum of threatened violence that ranges from sexual remarks to sexual touching to rape itself. A rape culture condones physical and emotional terrorism against women as the norm.

In a rape culture both men and women assume that sexual violence is a fact of life, inevitable as death or taxes. This violence, however, is neither biologically nor divinely ordained. Much of what we accept as inevitable is in fact the expression of values and attitudes that can change.

（中文翻譯）強姦文化
強姦文化是一組複雜的信念。這種理念鼓勵並且支持男性對於女性的暴力行為包括性騷擾，性侵犯和強姦。在信奉強姦文化的社會裡，暴力被看成是性感的，而性則一定是帶有暴力的，性與暴力緊密相連。
在強姦文化里，女性通常遭遇一系列的性暴力威脅，包括性言語（語言騷擾），性接觸（性侵犯），以及強姦。強姦文化把縱容對於婦女進行身體上和情緒上的恐怖主義看成天經地義。
在信奉強姦文化的社會裡，人們不分男女都認定性暴力或者暴力性是生活中的事實，是不可避免的，猶如死亡和稅收那樣具有必然性。然而，這種暴力行為，既不是生理決定的也不受神靈保佑的。我們以為這些似乎確鑿得如同板上釘釘不可改變的東西，其實都是某種價值觀念和態度的表述，而價值觀和人們的態度並非一成不變，而是完全可以改變的。

Definition from Wikipedia:

Rape culture is a concept used to describe a culture in which rape and sexual violence are common and in which prevalent attitudes, norms, practices, and media normalize, excuse, tolerate, or even condone sexual violence.

Examples of behaviors commonly associated with rape culture include victim blaming, sexual objectification, and trivializing rape. Rape culture has been used to model behaviour within social groups, including prison systems where prison rape is common and conflict areas where war rape is used as psychological warfare. Entire countries have also been alleged to be rape cultures.

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Rape culture has been observed to correlate with other social factors and behaviours. Research identifies correlation between rape myths, victim blaming and trivialisation of rape with increased incidence of racism, homophobia, ageism, classism, religious intolerance and other forms of discrimination

最後一段的中文翻譯：

強姦文化已被觀察到與其他社會因素和行為的關聯。研究確定了在以下三種現象包括關於強姦迷思，指責受害者，將強姦罪惡減輕縮小化與種族主義，同性戀恐懼症，年齡歧視，社會階層歧視，宗教不相容忍和其他形式的歧視有着正相關性。

Define feminist: Anyone who believes women's experiences and ideas are valued is a feminist.

女權主義者定義：任何認為女性的經驗和思想是有價值的人就是一個女權主義者。