Let's say I was abandoned by my birth parents. Should I love them, or should I hate them? They made mistakes? How come other parents with similar money situation didn't do the same. Why you, my parents? Why me, of all the kids, was abandoned? Your parents being different or not is irrelevant to my response regarding your comments on me being abandoned by my parents. You don't want to judge your parents, good. Then you gave yourself permission to judge me - being abandoned?
