在大學裡,你可以遇到很多人,但你必須勇於探索和建立新的聯繫,以結交真正的朋友。為了結交了新朋友,我自己注意在以下各種場合:宿舍,上課前後,俱樂部,暑期實習。
宿舍里有許多活動新生通常可以參加。我的建議是:走出去!
我自己一直是一個害羞內向的人,但我時時提醒自己:要走出自己的舒適區。這一點幫助我成長了,現在我不再害怕和陌生人交談了。
大學一年級的每個人都是新人,沒有誰認識誰,所以請儘量去和別人交談。你可以做如下這幾點:
1. 到宿舍的休息室,加入坐在那裡的人們的談話。
2. 上課前與同學聊天,並邀請他們在課後一起午餐或晚餐。
3. 加入很多俱樂部。試試那些俱樂部,就像你在試穿新衣服一樣。
4. 參加介紹會,如何你認為自己可能不喜歡,那就不要勉強自己。
5. 與你認為很酷的人交換號碼,然後邀請他們與你一起參加有趣的活動。
大學裡充滿了有趣的活動,比如有趣的客座講座,活動交易會,期末考試時,還會有治療犬來到。這些活動本身就是很有趣的事,但如果和這些人一起做,就會幫你更好地了解他們。
Makingfriends/Breaking ice:
Meeting people incollege is not too hard, but you have to be open to exploring and making new connections in order to make real friends. I made new friends in various settings: dorms, classes, clubs, summer internships.
There are often many events available for freshmen to attend in their dorms.
My recommendation is: go!
I'm a shy and introverted person, but I put myself out of my comfort zone all the time, and this helped me to grow into the person that I am today.
Every freshmen in college is new there, no one knows anyone else, so just go ahead and talk to someone.
1. Go to your dorm's lounge and join the conversation that people sitting there are having.
2. Chat with your classmates before class, and invite them to lunch or dinner after class.
3. Join lots of clubs. Try on clubs like you're trying on new clothes.
4. Go to the intro meetings, but don't feel obligated to go back if you don't think you'll like it.
5. Exchange numbers with people you think are cool and then invite them to go to fun events with you.
College is full of fun events, from interesting guest lectures, to activity fairs, to therapy dog sessions during finals. These are all interesting ontheir own, but an even better way to get to know people is to do stuff with them.