I notice that some Wumao are trying to entice you. Be careful!
You might expose your own weakness when you focus on yourself and pay too much attention to other people's opinion about your deeds.
You could focus on examining your motivation and action in light of your real conscience; or, if you are a Christian, examining them according to the biblical standards. No human is perfect, but a upright heart would always find favor in God's sight.
Peace to you and your family!