愛,就是共同的激情 ----情人節里對愛的解讀 情人節是表達愛的節日,不一定非得是“情人”。今天的情人有了更廣的意義,它更多地是指與你朝夕相處,相濡以沫的愛人。我常常想,愛到底有怎樣的含義呢? 英文中把愛寫成“Love”,可是讀許多英文小說,有人把“love”稱作“compassion”。我很喜歡這個詞,覺得它更能詮釋愛的意義。愛,就是讓我來感受你的痛苦,你的歡樂,你的悲傷,還有你的快慰。那麼,compassion不是最貼切地表達了這多重的意義嗎?com是分享,passion是激情。愛,就是彼此分享共同的激情。相比之下,love所能傳達的意思就單薄了許多。 我們從雙雙年輕,牽手步入愛的宮殿。曾經的山盟海誓,要經得起柴米油鹽的平平淡淡;曾經的激情無限,要跨越過生兒育女的瑣細無奈。從春走到夏,從秋走到冬;日復一日,年復一年。黑髮在變白,容顏在變老,不改的是我們那顆曾經彼此相愛的心。想想我們每個人,不都是歷經了這樣的愛之旅程嗎? 有了共同分享激情的心願,才會有同舟共濟的決心;有了共同分享激情的信念,才會有白頭偕老的浪漫。愛,就是讓我陪你一起慢慢變老。 我更喜歡繁體漢字的“愛”。愛人就是心靈的朋友,在同一個屋檐下,承受來自上天的三種壓力,這壓力也許是出自你,我,還有他(她)。但是,無論這三種壓力有多大,只要有了心靈的朋友,就如同撐起了一把晴雨傘,那是來自上帝的保佑。愛,就是這樣一種分擔和分享,相愛的人在分擔彼此的憂慮中變得成熟;在分享彼此的快樂中變得年輕。 愛,就是共同的激情;只要激情還在,只要分享的愛心還在,愛,就會永遠年輕! 我最喜歡的一首歌,Take Me to Your Heart,與大家分享。 Take Me to Your Heart hiding from the rain and snow trying to forget but I won't let go looking at a crowded street listening to my own heart beat so many people all around the world tell me where do I find someone like you girl take me to your heart take me to your soul give me your hand before I'm old show me what love is haven't got a clue show me that wonders can be true they say nothing lasts forever we're only here today love is now or never bring me far away take me to your heart take me to your soul give me your hand and hold me show me what love is be my guiding star it's easy take me to your heart standing on a mountain high looking at the moon through a clear blue sky I should go and see some friends but they don't really comprehend don't need too much talking without saying anything all I need is someone who makes me want to sing take me to your heart take me to your soul give me your hand before i'm old show me what love is haven't got a clue show me that wonders can be true they say nothing lasts forever we're only here today love is now or never bring me far away take me to your heart take me to your soul give me your hand and hold me show me what love is be my guiding star it's easy take me to your heart take me to your heart take me to your soul give me your hand and hold me show me what love is be my guiding star it's easy take me to your heart. 2011 年 2 月 14 日 愛的三種境界 愛,恰似溫柔的憐憫 牽掛是一種美好的情感 |